Week 1

I did not know I was going to do weekly summaries of my Best Year, until right now as I sat down at the computer. All day long, I’ve had a nagging feeling that I need to capture some of my thoughts as I near the end of the week, especially this first week of 2022.

Core Focus of the Week: Just get going.

Years and years ago, I heard Mike Litman say, “You don’t have to get it perfect, you just have to get it going.” Many of my mentors have said, “You can’t steer a parked car.” And Hal Elrod, who inspired this approach to 2022, continues to remind us that “it’s about progress, not perfection.” So, as you might have already figured out, the focus for this week was to just get going.

I already laid out my pre-determined processes and all I wanted to do this week was start. Just take those simple steps. And then do that again the next day. And the next. And the next. None of these steps has to be perfect – and that thought takes away SO MUCH stress! But stick with me here as I lay out this incredibly simple but powerful idea:

Every step forward is a step forward.

I know that seems almost ridiculous on the surface. But it is so easy to forget that even stumbling forward is still moving forward. It is so easy to forget that a 1% improvement, or even a 0.1% improvement IS improvement.

If the goal is to be the best version of myself, then every single step forward, however small and halting, is a step forward. Every single improvement, no matter how small, is still improvement and means that I have become the best version of myself up to now. And I can honestly say that, each day, as long as I focus on my predetermined processes, control what I can control, and move forward each day.

And rather than focusing on how far I still have to go before I have created the results I want to create this year, I am going to look back and see how far I have already come in just one week.

  • I lowered my weight by more than 2 pounds, in a healthy and sustainable way.
  • I enjoyed more water in the last week than in the previous two months combined.
  • I made better food choices, in terms of quantity AND quality more often than not, which is very much a step forward.
  • I did a total of 124 pushups, which was more than I have done in the past two years.
  • I did a total of 239 abdominal crunches, which was more than I have done in the past two years.
  • I did nearly 2 hours of intentional walking just to move, which was more than I did in the past 8 months, total.
  • I added $10 to my savings balance.
  • I added $100+ to my investment balance.
  • I interviewed for a step-up position outside my current employer and while I did not get selected for the position, I received very valuable feedback.
  • I started investigating several possible side hustle ideas and begun to take advantage of information and resources from very successful people.
  • My relationship with my wife is closer than it has been in the past 8 years.
  • My relationships with my colleagues is the best it has ever been.
  • I met someone new this week, expanding my circle of influence.
  • I consistently did my Miracle Morning SAVERS each day, and enjoyed Hal’s app for the 30-day challenge
  • I read more from Lead the Field and started reading The Money Tree, feeding new wisdom into my mind
  • I engaged with high-quality content about Stoicism, Buddhism, and conquering my procrastination habit, learning about practices that will make me a better version of myself each day
  • I enjoyed several PhilosophersNotes, which are VERY high-quality summaries of some of the most important books produced in the last century (or more)
  • I enjoyed a great deal of Jim Rohn content, taking advantage of Jim’s proven mindset and philosophy towards life, to begin refining my own philosophy and mindset
  • I laughed, deeply and often, each day because I made it a point to take advantage of the best medicine (I am convinced it is the best medicine for mind, soul, spirit, and body)
  • I enjoyed two new shows and two movies with my wife, which gave us a chance to bond over shared experiences and, several times, to discuss deeper issues
  • I planned two mini-trip getaways with my wife, which give us a chance to break out of our normal setting and enjoy shared experiences that are well outside our norm
  • I learned about the Buddhist idea of reducing/eliminating suffering by reducing/eliminating resistance to pain and started putting this into practice, which has already begun to reduce my suffering in small ways that I am sure will add up
  • I learned about the Stoic idea of “memento mori,” which means “remember death” and started putting this into practice, which has already begun to reframe my priorities as I remember that I could be gone at any moment…have I lived my best life
  • I consistently engaged with Psalms, Proverbs, and the Tao Te Ching, filling my mind with ancient, but timeless, wisdom

As I look back on that list, I must say, in both humility and honesty, that I have gained a HUGE amount over just a seven-day period. And I can see, tangibly, why it is much more productive to focus on gains.

Themes

Are you one of those people that sets a theme for the new year? Such as “Forward” or “Sparkle” or some other one-word framework that is supposed to be totally meaningful. I need to apologize to you, and I mean REALLY apologize. I’m sincerely sorry, because…

I never have been one of those people because I have never really trusted the power of such simplistic things. In fact, I’m ashamed to admit it, but I have quietly, and sometimes not very quietly, mocked the “themed ones.” Looking back over the years, I’m embarrassed by my willingness, maybe even desire, to look down my nose at such “silly” approaches to life.

BUT – and here comes the hard part – I must admit that I seem to be setting a theme (or maybe two) to the upcoming new year. After working through my Miracle Morning and Best Year frameworks for the past several days, I am noticing two words coming through pretty strongly.

The first is “VALUE” because it seems that, almost unconsciously, nearly everything I have listed for the results I want to create in 2022 revolves around the idea of adding value to other people’s lives. And also in my own. Whether that value is simply giving them a smile they wouldn’t get any other way, or a sincere compliment, or something much more substantial, it seems that I have almost unconsciously set out to add value to the world and the people in it.

And the second theme that seems to be emerging is “LEARN.” A good number of the results I want to create in the next trip around the sun revolve around learning more, and learning almost constantly. As I sit here typing this out and thinking through the idea of constant learning, I think I know why, almost unconsciously, I have set out to make this next year one of constant learning. Because I will then be able to create MORE value to add to the world (in general) and to the people in my life (in particular).

And even better, I have already realized that I don’t have to be perfect right now to create value for those around me. I just have to be willing to share. And as I continue to learn more, to grow, to expand my own awareness, to build my own capacity, I can simply share what I learn and trust that I will be creating more and more value.